A cuckold’s dream
I find myself dreaming of my wife being with other men. Even though I feel a little jealousy at the thought, it brings me to a level of excitement that is difficult to conceal. The humiliation of it excites me so very much indeed.
The thought of my wife naked, her pussy lips parted and pushing herself on his large cock deep within her excites me, thinking of her desperate for him to fuck her more and please her like I cannot.
Is it my desire to serve and prepare her for his visit and serve their needs, it is my desire to feel the humiliation as she makes me suck his large cock and make it hard for her. See her being taken in ways I could never hope to achieve.
I desire for her to describe in detail how it feels to be fucked by him, his cock deep inside her, anticipating the moment when he withdraws and he floods over her body in quantities more than I could ever hope to produce.
To watch her expression, look into her eyes as she orgasms for him, coming again and again, seeing him do to her as I never have, cleaning her wet pussy lips with my tongue in gratitude.
Ultimately the man that gained her respect and confidence, the reward would be as follows.
A Three Way Harmony
For a husband to bear direct witness to his wife’s intercourse with a lover, all three must have a compatible perspective on the event and also possess an emotional handle on themselves. This is the right of every cuckold husband to at least sometimes be present, in the room, to bear witness to his wife’s body yielding to the cock of her lover. Having said that, the manner and timing of his presence can be varied substantially, something the couple will ultimately decide, not the lover.
It’s not uncommon for the wife to be very reluctant to allow the husband to watch feeling anxiety over being watched during such an intimate event. Besides being self-conscious, this anxiety is often due to subconscious guilt because she knows she is going to enjoy this experience more than she’s let her husband know and/or because she knows that she responds and performs for her lover in ways she does not for her husband and feels the need to protect him from seeing that. Such protection is not what cuckolds need – they instead need to be fully aware and included; not knowing detail hurts far worse as not knowing is what leads to doubt and fear.
I am mostly addressing bulls here because an experienced Dom is going to not only accept the cuckold’s presence, and pleasure but enjoy it and leverage it as part of the experience. The lover is most often uncomfortable having the husband around simply because he fears the husband reacting poorly to the his role in the marriage. To a cuckold this may seem silly, but a jealous husband out of control can be dangerous. Some bulls may worry there’s some bi or homosexual interest in the husband which is typically not the case, often when all are compatible the cuckold is made to feel and even suck the lovers cock so he feels deeper what his wife is experiencing increasing his humiliation, and excitement, while some lovers are just selfish and don’t really care about the husband or his role as a cuckold; these bulls are to be avoided as they are not the best fit for a proper cuckolding environment.
A Process For Most
As with most aspects of the cuckolding lifestyle, bearing witness to the hotwife’s coupling with her bull or Dom is easiest for everyone when it comes through progressive steps. Some wives are eager to have their husband present from the start because it either helps them feel secure or because they’ve already begun to appreciate the D/s dynamic of having him watch her being taken by another male. In these cases, the holdout is often the lover and before the cuckold can even be considered to be present during lovemaking, the lover must first become comfortable with the husband simply be present.
Such familiarity is best done through spending time together as an extended couple. By this, I mean that the wife and her lover are the couple with her husband in attendance. This can be done in public as dates and in private by having the lover over for dinner, watching movies together or other day-time events. It’s important that the wife take the lead in establishing and exercising intimacy with her lover while her husband is present. She needs to be confident in touching, kissing and cuddling up to her lover to reinforce that it is acceptable behavior and to demonstrate that the husband only responds positively to such displays of intimacy between his wife and her lover. Once the lover is comfortable initiating such intimacy on his own, or better yet, enjoys exploring such play, working toward coupling in front of the cuckold comes much easier.
Once basic forms of intimacy are easily and openly enjoyed between wife and lover with the husband present, begin to explore deeper forms of intimacy with the husband present or nearby. I recommend using extended foreplay as a vehicle to introduce open physical intimacy with the husband present or nearby.
Dinner while dating: The cuckold tags along on the date, but the wife should clearly give her attention to her lover. Again, the pair should return to his place after the date while her cuckold returns home to wait for her.
Dinner before dating: A first step toward introducing the husband to the mix. Have the lover come for dinner before he takes her out for the evening. If they’ve been going to his place after dates, that would still work at this stage.
Evening at home: The wife would dress very invitingly – wearing something openly suggestive of her intimacy with her lover. This alone sets the proper tone for the lover indicating that their intimacy is open and overt. Choose a movie for the couple to watch together after dinner. The cuckold should see to cleaning up after dinner and allow the couple to settle in together. Again, the wife should initiate cuddling and petting to set the example for her lover that such intimacy is perfectly acceptable in the home. The cuckold must continue to manage his own feeling of arousal and conflict during this time to prevent undoing the progress achieved to that point. The first time a couple does this, the cuckold should likely find ‘something else to do’ much of the time and only join the couple for a few minutes at a time – long enough to enjoy the sight of his wife and her lover cuddled together and long enough for the lover to appreciate that it’s all perfectly acceptable and welcome. The cuckold should leave them to their foreplay and ensure the bedroom is ready for them and then politely notify them that the bedroom has been made ready should they want some privacy. This is a humbling, but important task for the husband – it makes him directly responsible for encouraging the intimacy.
During the movie/cuddling phase, nudity can become the norm and the cuckold may witness his wife getting her boyfriend’s cock wet with her mouth before taking him to bed, once again to mount him in private. Soon such acts will feel very comfortable and at some point, the bedroom door can be left open as an invitation for the husband to quietly follow and witness what they will allow until he is dismissed.
Each couple will have variations of this process in terms of what intimacies are enjoyed and shared in view of the husband and how many times it takes to progress to the next level, but having a plan and working toward the end goal is the important point.
The goal, objective, aspiration, aim, ambition, The goal.
Three way Harmony
Ultimately, when the couple (man and wife) works toward this goal together, the cuckold, (loving husband) can become both witness and partner in attaining his hotwife’s full measure of pleasure. The lover become a friend to both with benefits.